There’s this man who is the only person who believes im twin flames that i’ll listen to but anyways he said when men look for a partner, they look for a woman who’ll fit into his “kingdom”

By kingdom he means, does she match my lifestyle, can i see her fitting in with my friends & family, does she have the same mindset as me, do we have the same interests, etc. Basically does her piece match the missing one of his puzzle. They want someone who blends into his life

They may desire and date all kinds of women, but the one they commit to or marry will be the person who he thinks fits into his “kingdom” the best

I’ve been trying to adopt this mindset myself now that I’m getting back into dating. Looking to see if a man fits into my “queendom” i guess and if i would fit into his “kingdom” too.

I think it’s a good strategy to have when dating new people. Many women just want to date whoever they love and ignore incompatibilities. You can love someone deeply, but if your lifestyles don’t match then there’s a low chance of having a successful and healthy relationship

I think this mindset is helping me stay grounded as I date new people. Idk but it’s very interesting to think about! Just thought i would share