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You see, the thing with narcissists is that they love to be the "saviour and protector" of those poor, vulnerable, abused souls they see around them.
They believe they have all the answers to "fix you."
But here's the rub:
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They believe they have all the answers to "fix you."
But here's the rub:
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The narcissist believes that their ideas are the BEST ideas. The NECESSARY solutions. The ONLY choice.
So when their absolute genius is doubted or all out denied by their victim, it gets nasty.
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So when their absolute genius is doubted or all out denied by their victim, it gets nasty.
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They tell their victim that it's clearly their fault that they're still suffering. They start the gaslighting, because if the victim starts to doubt themselves above all else, then they're going to HAVE to start listening to their saviour.
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This is why so many who suffered previous instances of abuse and up falling for narcissists.
They want to feel safe and cared for at last.
A narcissist will always be ready to take advantage of that.
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They want to feel safe and cared for at last.
A narcissist will always be ready to take advantage of that.
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Love yourself first.
Whatever happened to you was NEVER your fault. No one deserves to suffer so much. You deserve your own sympathy and kindness. Don't look elsewhere for what you already have.
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Whatever happened to you was NEVER your fault. No one deserves to suffer so much. You deserve your own sympathy and kindness. Don't look elsewhere for what you already have.
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The narcissist will get nastier and invent as many games & involve as many people as possible to keep you tied to them for as long as they can. They won't stop.
Be patient with yourself. It isn't your fault at all. You did nothing wrong here.
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Be patient with yourself. It isn't your fault at all. You did nothing wrong here.
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Give yourself lots of time and lots of love. Focus on healing however much you can each day. Get strong.
One day, you'll be seeing through them and those who support the cruelty easier than ever.
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One day, you'll be seeing through them and those who support the cruelty easier than ever.
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And when you get there, you'll laugh.
You're finally free. Not just this time. For the rest of your life.
You got this.
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You're finally free. Not just this time. For the rest of your life.
You got this.
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