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I stumbled on Dr. Gray's 'Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus'.
I acknowledge that what works for you may not work for someone else.
I believe the book aims at effective communication in a relationship and I found a thing or two that could help both the men & women.
I acknowledge that what works for you may not work for someone else.
I believe the book aims at effective communication in a relationship and I found a thing or two that could help both the men & women.
For the Men :
1. Listen to her.
2. Do as many small things as you do big things for her.
1. Listen to her.
2. Do as many small things as you do big things for her.
For the Ladies :
1. Show appreciation for everything he does.
2. Admire him (How about he does something to earn admiration)
1. Show appreciation for everything he does.
2. Admire him (How about he does something to earn admiration)
3. Give him his man cave space even though you are hurting, wait and hurt until he feels ready to deal with you.
4. Speak in small direct sentences with no detail because his attention span is low. (Really and these are the leaders of our world!)
4. Speak in small direct sentences with no detail because his attention span is low. (Really and these are the leaders of our world!)
5. Don't give him unsolicited advice because he will feel you don't trust him to figure out a solution and be offended (Are grown men really such babies)
6. Accept him for how he is-if you give him advice he will think you are trying to change him and be insulted and feel incompetent-even if he is incompetent in some situations.
7. Be careful to phrase your requests for help appropriately. Say would instead of could or can you. If you say could or can you, he will think he could do what you are asking but he isn't going to. If say would you, he will be more willing to because he has a choice. REALLY!
8. Please be okay with him telling you NO ,he is also human.
