best thing to remember is that how someone perceives you is the truth of their experience with you but it& #39;s not the truth of who you are or your identity. that boundary is important.
or else you will think that someone having a negative experience with you makes you a bad person and will internalize it. no no. don& #39;t fall for that. you know yourself. we& #39;re not for everyone and conflict is just a part of life with 7 billion people on one planet.
for once i& #39;m not going that deep or including the harmful perspective. more so, just because people don& #39;t like you doesn& #39;t mean you& #39;re a bad person or now need to reject something about yourself or take it personally that they can& #39;t see you.
obviously if you are harming someone that is a different story but i& #39;m not focused on how we are victims today. i want to empower people to celebrate more of themselves and stop taking people& #39;s judgments seriously so they can learn themselves w/o attaching to opinion.
even if that means addressing your shadow and sometimes seeing if it is you. i didn& #39;t say perceptions were useless. just not the total truth.
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