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best thing to remember is that how someone perceives you is the truth of their experience with you but it's not the truth of who you are or your identity. that boundary is important.
or else you will think that someone having a negative experience with you makes you a bad person and will internalize it. no no. don't fall for that. you know yourself. we're not for everyone and conflict is just a part of life with 7 billion people on one planet.
for once i'm not going that deep or including the harmful perspective. more so, just because people don't like you doesn't mean you're a bad person or now need to reject something about yourself or take it personally that they can't see you.
obviously if you are harming someone that is a different story but i'm not focused on how we are victims today. i want to empower people to celebrate more of themselves and stop taking people's judgments seriously so they can learn themselves w/o attaching to opinion.
even if that means addressing your shadow and sometimes seeing if it is you. i didn't say perceptions were useless. just not the total truth.
