dear non binary and genderfluid moots, just a minute with a boring tweet but i think it's important.
i do not know any one close to me irl being non binary or genderfluid. i always give pet names to people i like and sometimes i don't know how to formulate some sentences without-

- gendering and then might hurt some of you. i'm deeply sorry if it happens (or has happened in the past). english isn't my native langage and gendering in french isn't really done the same as in english. i'm so sorry if i do some mistakes and say something that could hurt you.-

- please know it was never and never will be my intention to hurt anyone. and please come talk to me if i do offend you. i need to know if i do some mistakes so i won't do them again. don't hesitate to share your feelings with me about how i speak or what i could say better or -

- what i should not say. sometimes i may have weird questions but that's not to make you uncomfortable but to avoid hurting you in the future. but failing 24/7 is my life, so i tell things in a shitty way and i'm sorry for that.

feel free to correct me and educate me at any time.
with love

can someone tell me if by saying bro or dude i gender someone? it's kinda hard for me to know if it is neutral in english or not