The 1st time a guy took me on an expensive date or sent me money I was SHOOK. In the back of my head I was thinkin "I can& #39;t believe he& #39;s okay with doing this stuff for me".

The process of going from dating guys who don& #39;t really do shit for u to dating ones who do, is a mindfuck

because it& #39;s like, wow so these types of men really exist, shit like this really exists, and the only reason I& #39;ve never had this treatment before is bc I had no idea. It feels like everything u believed about dating was a lie https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">

And then it gets really crazy when u realize that you can make men going above and beyond for you a prerequisite BEFORE you give up da https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🐱" title="Cat face" aria-label="Emoji: Cat face">.

"If he wants to even TOUCH me, THIS is required first."
WHEW. THAT& #39;S the game changing thought right there.

It makes u move DIFFERENT

Ppl want u to believe that it& #39;s harder than this, that men just don& #39;t wanna do nice things for us, but all it takes is a simple mindset shift to stop attracting & accepting those types of guys into your life. Cuz they are most definitely a "type", & "types" can be avoided https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🗣" title="Speaking head in silhouette" aria-label="Emoji: Speaking head in silhouette">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💯" title="Hundred points symbol" aria-label="Emoji: Hundred points symbol">

I dont care how fine a nigga is, how cool a nigga is, how much money or clout the nigga got.... if he& #39;s not treating me how I want to be treated, spoiling me, and respecting me in general he& #39;s got to fucking go

I hate that women are not taught to know how much power they have in their relationships with men. Do you know how many issues would be completely resolved if women were taught to have standards and set boundaries from the very beginning? Chile.....

Since we on the topic, check out our new blog post from @LittleKittenLA.

"The Truth About Sex & Why You Should Make Him Wait" written by @arryanaluxe of @luxegirldiaries https://www.little-kitten.com/blogs/kittytalk/make-him-wait">https://www.little-kitten.com/blogs/kit...