normalize calling your friends out & educating them when they are being ignorant.

you don’t have to make them feel bad but just a simple “hey! don’t say that! — this is why”

I just want to + on that I used to think my friends telling me when I was wrong or just simply disagreeing w me meant it was something against me, then I realized it’s all for growth & friends should help eachother become better people & should be able to learn from one another

as long as your educating and informing your friends about something that they are either ignorant or wrong about with genuine respect and no humiliation, then you’re a good friend. these things are also better in private. ppl who care for you look out for you!

ya’ll need to stop saying “ tf it is normal “ — uhhhhh unfortunately in some friendships, IT ISNT. but ive proved my point