People be wanting to be Bestfriends in order to be in relationships and I don’t think that’s how it goes. My Bestfriend wasn’t even my bestfriend before we formed a connection. We wasn’t even “friends”.

“Friendships” are formed connections. You becomes friends based off the attraction. Not physical attraction yet mental attraction. Yea you can want someone to be your friend based of physical attraction. However that’s a deeper connection waiting to happen.

You can be attracted to anyone physically, mentally and emotionally and that causes you to want more than a “friendship” from that person. However, being mentally attracted towards someone and wanting them to be your friend rarely happens for different sexes. You can fall in love

Which makes same sex friendships easy because you’re not physically attracted to the same sex. If you are physically attracted to the same sex problems will present themselves eventually like they do with different sex relationship.

Often times you see problems present themselves with someone who is in a relationship and their partner has a different sex “Bestfriend” “play sibling” etc. a lot of times these are people who they have had relations with, once were physically attracted to or went to school with.

Not saying this is always the case. However, from personal experiences and conversation 9/10 this is how it be. I think that all people are capable of being friends. However, is that the intention? Or let’s just say we can be want to be friends but the way attraction is set up...

Honestly, you can even fall in love with your friend you wasn’t even physically attracted to. That moment they do something that makes you feel safe or even comfortable mentally. Chile you’re going to be hooked even if you’re afraid to say it.

Attraction is the formation for connections forming. So many energies are waiting to connection and attraction just be moving accordingly until two energies connection. So when you’re entering a relationship you’re creating a friendship.