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Guys who jump from relationship to relationship? They’re incredibly insecure and lonely. They can’t be alone because they’re empty inside and can’t face themselves. Them “moving on,” so quickly after you DOESN’T mean there’s anything wrong with you. It’s them. Not you.
I know how it feels. You’re absolutely devastated and can barely function and your ex already has a new girlfriend. He’s probably seems to be treating her better than he treated you. It hurts like a bitch. But guess what? You should pity him. He’s not strong enough to be alone.
YOU are doing the work. You are looking inwards. You’re setting fucking standards. You’re analyzing him and yourself and what went wrong. You’re focusing on being the best you that you can be. You will be happy, healed and ONLY investing in meaningful connections. Lucky you.
there is nothing wrong with you, my love
you're not that easy to get over or forget..you're not
they're just literally incapable of sitting alone with their thoughts and facing it
they'll feel the ache that you're feeling...maybe after they fuck up their new relationship lmao
you're not that easy to get over or forget..you're not
they're just literally incapable of sitting alone with their thoughts and facing it
they'll feel the ache that you're feeling...maybe after they fuck up their new relationship lmao
Listen, I've been on both sides. I've been there just crushed watching him fall in love on Instagram, and I've also been the "new," girl. Fuckin horrible either way. Introspection after a relationship is so important. Gentleman, if you're reading this: Please, spend time alone.
Everything wrong in your relationships will keep on happening. Over and over. Same mistakes. New people. You'll end up feeling miserable. Hopping into new relationships is only a bandaid for the real issues. Face those real issues. Don't go on spreading your misery everywhere.
Losing someone that you really love already feels like your heart is being ripped out of your chest...but when another person is introduced into the mix? The pain is CRIPPLING. It feels like you're being punished. You compare yourself to the new person RELENTLESSLY. It *is* HELL.
I'm here to tell you that no matter how much you loved them, no matter how many wonderful memories you had..no matter how LONG you were together...there's a STRONG possibility that he'll move on quickly. It's not you. It's not anything you've done. He can't be alone. That's. It.
It is SO fucking painful to see them with someone else that I suggest you do anything in your power to avoid it completely. KEEP THEM BLOCKED. Don't look at their shit. Don't talk to people who know them. It is so heart-wrenching that you shouldn't even have to know about it.
The ONLY thing that this new girl has on you is that she doesn't know his tricks, his problems, and his patterns of behavior yet. She's not better than you. She's just..newer. A new person to "try," with. And fail with. Keep his # blocked so he can't come back when it ends.
