Realized it’s very hard to accept when you play a part in causing your own pain.. but I dislike how easy it is to blame others. You put yourself in the same situation over and over and wonder why you’re still hurt https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🧐" title="Face with monocle" aria-label="Emoji: Face with monocle"> I only started healing once I could accept where I was at fault

& I guess I can understand it now. When you give people chances & they still hurt you, you can’t see how sth so bad could’ve come from you being good so you look outside.. but you can forgive w/out giving people other chances, that’s in your power..don’t be so hard on yourself https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💜" title="Purple heart" aria-label="Emoji: Purple heart">

Honestly just need to be gentle with yourself, as long as you are working on being better, don’t beat yourself up when things go wrong, nobody’s perfect.. learn & move forward but most importantly be as gentle with yourself as you would be with others (x 10)