I& #39;ve known for ages that I need to increase my tolerance for uncertainty

I& #39;m a planner, and flexibility/spontaneity do not come naturally

I feel like I& #39;ve just been thrown into the gauntlet and I am COMPLETELY UNPREPARED

Advice for dealing w uncertainty as a control freak?

If you don& #39;t have advice but want to commiserate, I& #39;m open to that as well.

Does that count as flexibility? https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Thinking face" aria-label="Emoji: Thinking face">