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"You both need to embrace your gender. Fully. Deeply. And then, when you put in the work, you can go out and demand from the other to meet your needs." ~ @selfconquering
There is a lot of truth in this not often talked about. I like this take, but have another thought..
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There is a lot of truth in this not often talked about. I like this take, but have another thought..
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Men are made through their achievements, their competence, their ability to turn frame into results, penetrating the world and building value
BUT, is a beautiful woman merely existing enough as a form of “value”
~ I think not, but what do YOU need above aesthetics alone?
BUT, is a beautiful woman merely existing enough as a form of “value”
~ I think not, but what do YOU need above aesthetics alone?
When a woman really wants to be with you, she'll go to great lengths to make that happen
She'll risk an awful lot to be with a man who's
Dangerous,
Bold,
Competent,
& Dominant
.. And the chance to be all hers, fighting against her reasoning for a man she sees value in
She'll risk an awful lot to be with a man who's
Dangerous,
Bold,
Competent,
& Dominant
.. And the chance to be all hers, fighting against her reasoning for a man she sees value in
When she's incentivized, she will go out of her way to invest for you because women only value what they work for
This is true for day 1 or day 1,001
Her wanting to please you and finding ways to invest through sweat (and maybe) tears for you will keep the relationship strong
This is true for day 1 or day 1,001
Her wanting to please you and finding ways to invest through sweat (and maybe) tears for you will keep the relationship strong
Understand this
But understand also that this isn't license to run pathetic 'asshole' game
Don’t take this as an absolute and think it's okay become needy thinking you're immediately "the prize"
But understand also that this isn't license to run pathetic 'asshole' game
Don’t take this as an absolute and think it's okay become needy thinking you're immediately "the prize"
But on the other hand, it is crucial that you have an agenda and get something of substance from a beautiful woman in your life
If she’s not constantly investing then both sides will lose out
Figure out how she fits into your life and where the value exchange starts and stops
If she’s not constantly investing then both sides will lose out
Figure out how she fits into your life and where the value exchange starts and stops
This isn't a transaction, this is life, but breaking it down to a molecular level is actually the foundation of healthy relationships
Here’s the reality for you both:
if you’re not getting anything out of her,
you won’t be motivated to keep demonstrating your value to her
Here’s the reality for you both:
if you’re not getting anything out of her,
you won’t be motivated to keep demonstrating your value to her
This can be a sure fire way to check out of an LTR
So work out what that is, what's that X factor from her, only YOU can determine what fits in your life
h/t - @selfconquering for the article
"So you both become a better version of yourself. Each day" https://selfconquering.com/women-are-men-become-is-bullshit/
So work out what that is, what's that X factor from her, only YOU can determine what fits in your life
h/t - @selfconquering for the article
"So you both become a better version of yourself. Each day" https://selfconquering.com/women-are-men-become-is-bullshit/
