Why is it in black homes, when you start cooking up a QUICK meal for yourself, everyone thinks you’re cooking for the ENTIRE household.

Why can’t I make a meal, season it how I like and it not be for everyone else.

Am I bad vibes?

My mum genuinely thinks I don’t love her when I make myself food... like I made ramen the other day and she was complaining... ermmmm mommy- you don’t even know what ramen iss???? & Cuz you don’t, you’re now critiquing the egg in the meal. I HATE LOCKDOWN.

Then my sister who DOES NOT like spicy food be complaining that my meal is too spicy.. SIS I DID NOT MAKE THIS WITH YOU IN MIND!!!!!

The men in this thread are calling me selfish.. meanwhile the women in this thread want to enjoy quick meals...

misogyny is that you knocking??

A quick meal for 1 is a 20 mins ting... when you start cooking for 3 more ppl... it’s no longer a QUICK meal.