hi im going to explain t/t and h/h lesbians using antis arguments if you're confused pls RESPECTFULLY dm me or comment im here to help explain the best i can!

okay so first: what is a t/t lesbian? a they/them lesbian is a woman or fem-aligned nonbinary person who uses they/them pronouns! some use other pronouns along with it and others only use they/them, and either way, they're still lesbians because they fit the definition!

what is a h/h lesbian? a he/him lesbian is a woman or fem-aligned nonbinary person who uses he/him pronouns! an important thing to remember is that pronouns don't ALWAYS equal gender! in some cases they do, which is why people can be misgendered, but not always!

why would a woman or fem-aligned enby use he/him pronouns if he/him pronouns are traditionally masc? well in many cases lesbians feel detached from their womanhood because they don't fit society's views of womanhood, some have trauma connected with she/her as well!

since gender is a spectrum, nonbinary people can fall anywhere from masc-aligned to non-aligned to fem-aligned! and since enbies aren't limited to just they/them pronouns, they can use any pronoun set they want, including he/him! it doesn't make them any less fem-aligned!

speaking personally, im a nonbinary lesbian because im fem-aligned and only attracted to women/fem aligned enbies and im comfortable with she/her, they/them, AND he/him! im still fem-aligned, those are just the pronouns i feel comfortable with!

please remember that if you aren't a lesbian you can't engage in this discourse BUT you can ask questions to help be a better ally! if you have further questions don't feel shy please dm a theysbian/hesbian as we are always open to answering respectful questions!

also another reminder that stating that pronouns NEVER equal gender invalidates binary trans people who are being misgendered so make sure to state that pronouns don't always equal gender but in some cases they do. also theysbians/hesbians feel free to add anything i left out!

also nb lesbians are included in the flag!!! so if you're not supportive of nb lesbians you're gonna have to find another flag <3