My husband and I talked about domestic/childrearing responsibilities before we got married and continuously talk about it. We agreed to be an equitable household, splitting chores. He thinks he does more than he does and I don& #39;t think he does enough.

We& #39;re good TIL Kai. He doesn& #39;t have his own space in the house bc his office space went to being Kai& #39;s nursery. & he thinks all of Kai& #39;s belongings are mine. Last night I had to set the record straight that whether he plays w Kai& #39;s toys or not, he will be cleaning them up.

Since we& #39;ve moved into a smaller house cause these new houses aren& #39;t shit I& #39;ve tried really hard to keep things organized & clean daily. I& #39;ve become a new me cause old me left shit everywhere. He still complains. But I& #39;m not going to beholden to cleaning all day everyday.

And until he cleans more, I continuously siphon money he leaves laid around the house. He asked last week did you see $175 somewhere? Me? Nope. (Actually bought a pair of leopard print platform kids and some the ordinary beauty products w the money). Thanks.