it’s usually looked down upon to talk about your exes with your partner, but i feel like it’s essential to learning how to love them, how they’ve been hurt, and it furthers your communication & understanding of one another

personally i want my partner to be my best friend & know everything about me. if they can’t handle it & want to hide things, they aren’t the one for me

can u tell i’m a scorpio venus lmao

but seriously i think communication is so important & knowing your partner’s past is essential to truly understanding them. focus on the present, but acknowledge the past