Then all of a sudden he started ignoring my messages and taking days to reply. I didn’t think too much of it until one day he called me after one of my work shifts. I picked up and as we were talking, I heard one random woman shout “CHÉRIE BABO” ...I’m sorry, chérie who?????

I was rattttledddd (people also call him Babo btw). He started stuttering telling me that it was his mum/aunty calling him, then the woman heard him and asked him ‘who’s your mum?’ looool I didn’t know what to believe

He told me he had to go and hung up. I barely even heard from him since. I remember telling my cousins and family friends about him and they were all suspicious. One of my family friends even told me that he tried to move to her

And I remember another time one of my cousins was telling me that he’s a big man, as in a GROWN MAN. I wasn’t too sure so another one of my cousins told me that she would do an investigation on him and get back to me anytime soon. The way I was desperate to know what was up omds

I waited and waited. In that same week I was shopping with my younger sister and I got a video call from him, he checked up on me and all. A few minutes later me and my sister hopped on the train and were planning to go to Westfield Stratford

While we were on the train I got an Instagram DM from my cousin (who did all the investigation). We started off with a light conversation and then she hit me with that ‘Abi I have to tell you something...’ at that point my heart was RACING

My sister saw me looking scared and asked me what was up, I told her that my cousin did the investigation on Panda. I gave my sister my phone to read the messages for me because I didn’t want to have a panic attack on the train

So as my sister was reading the messages she did a loud gasp. That’s I knew I was in for some bad news lmao. She told me from the messages that he’s actually 29 and not 24. I was like ‘what the hell????’

She then shouted in disbelief on the train after reading another message from my cousin. Turns out that Panda had a girlfriend this whole time, and SHE WAS THERE AT HIS GROUP’S CONCERT. The concert after our first date.

I. Was. So. Livid.
My sister was angry as well, she started cussing him from head to toe, calling him a stupid man etc. I didn’t even want to go to Westfield anymore after that so we took the train back home.

When we got off at a train station I called him and asked him if he has a girlfriend, this man tried to avoid the question by asking me questions. He told me to cool off and call him when I got home.

So I called him when I got home and he wasn’t picking up. I called a few more times and he picked up. He was doing the same thing, asking me some meaningless questions. He told me that he was speaking to his mum and had to call me back later. This man never called me again

I hopped on his Instagram live a few minutes later and this man was in someone’s car doing a long sermon about Jesus. For real? I thought he was talking to his ‘mum’

And like an idiot I waited days for him to call me back or even text me but I never heard a word from him again So I blocked him on all socials and moved on like a real bad b. The end.