I often joke about not wanting to date men. The main reason is being in a relationship with a man is a health hazard.

Being with a man lowers your life expectancy, damages mental health, and increases your risk for violence.

It's not just about this one man. It's patriarchy. https://twitter.com/blaxican_bonita/status/1252838316216479745

I don't think this is her fault at all. Even the most progressive relationships have issues with division of household labor. This is just a matter of men being men.

Which is not to say that relationships between non-men can't be problematic.

But since I have a choice, I've always felt like my chances at having a healthy LTR would be higher with a non-man.

& there's a decent amount of data showing the problems in man/woman relationships