Just because your parents did that to you doesn& #39;t make it okay.

Let& #39;s strive to do better if not we& #39;ll end up in a never ending circle of abuse in the name of discipline.

I still have ptsd from unnecessary knocks on my head because I didn& #39;t understand mathematics.

I still don& #39;t like maths, I struggled to pass it, it didn& #39;t matter that I was always top 10 in my class.

My parents did their best honestly, got me lesson teachers, paid for extra classes, cut off the tv when they had to, sat that with me daily ensure I did my assignments and understood what was taught in class.

But you see that unforeseen slaps and knocks, my brain suspends.

I became so fearful when it was time to learn because the fear of slap will not allow me think well.

After each learning session, it always ended in tears and headache.

Hitting a child just because they& #39;re failing is just so unfair to me. What if the child is depressed ?

I joined a live session this evening with Tara Fela Durotoye and a coach who& #39;s a specialist in Positive parenting, you people should go and watch it before it disappears.

If we must do better, we have to be extra intentional about how we raise our kids.