I don’t like being loved by someone I don’t love (like that). Makes me feel like I’m undervaluing their feelings.

I do however love with no expectation of being loved (like that) back. Which is also a shit feeling once you really get to think about it.

Letting go of feelings is not easy and I think (sometimes) you need someone to get over someone. I know that it sounds toxic coz then someone would probably have to deal with a heart they didn’t break but it can be a way of progressing, I feel.

I have recently started to believe that you can really love someone forever. Regardless of how things may be between y’all. Whether y’all both have new partners or are miles apart, your heart can stay fond of one person your entire life.

You also can’t learn to hate someone you love. You will die before those feelings die. Accepting that you love a person no matter what but can’t be with them takes a lot of strength but it’s the best way you could move on. Don’t fight it.

Love is tricky.