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my main goal in terms of how i look is to feel strong, confident & beautiful to myself, but i also want to look threatening/unattractive to straight, cis men. i will never, ever, want a straight cis man's approval on my looks or anything else. https://twitter.com/FFigureFBust/status/1252943861770588161
when straight cis men stay away because they're intimidated or not into you, the night is about you and your friends. when they fuck off and leave you alone, you and your friends are safer. period.
so yeah, there is a slight element when i choose a make up look or outfit, that i want to be visibly queer, or at least not attractive to a straight man. give me the garish looks, the weird t shirt, the suit, the trainers, the rainbows.
when i walk down the street i purposefully walk as if i'm on my way to a fight or an important meeting. sometimes i scowl. it makes me feel like a badass spy and it definitely sets your energy. (basic) straight men don't like women who appear angry or powerful.
men will always assume what you wear is for them. even when i am feeling femme & i wear a dress and subtle make up, i never want a straight man's attention or opinion. disgusten.
