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imagine if this fandom culture wasn't taken to the extreme in korea, imagine if fans wouldn't feel entitled, imagine if idols could happily talk about their love life without fans ruining it for them, imagine if fans were respectful of the idols privacy and happines, imagine if
some fans are so far gone that it's bizarre to read their comments. i came upon a comment earlier that said "so XX idol is dating? does that mean they don't care about money anymore?" so what does this mean? that you'll only support the idol if they give you the impression that +
you have a chance at romance with them? how can you be so entitled to demand something like this from them but at the same time swoon over all the love songs they sing? how are they supposed to sing those love songs without feeling love in their life? they already give you their+
time, their effort, preparing songs and albums for months, working without end to give you the best performances, cutting down sleep to wake up even earlier to practice sooner, cutting down food to look the way you expect them to look, and you have the audacity to reach your +
demandings hands beyond all of that into their private life which is none of your business? why, why must they feel so much pain because of you, why must you be so possessive and entitled, why do you think they have to give you the impression that they're your bf/gf?
i want to be their fan, and only their fan. i want to be their friend through thick and thin, but i don't want to cross that line, because being a fan has its limits. if they don't tell me something of their personal life themself, then who am i to go and search for it? who am i+
to do something so cruel? how would you feel if someone who is basically a stranger to you goes to tell you you shouldn't do this or that just because they like it that way? wouldn't you feel like you're a circus animal in a cage? this fandom culture in korea needs to just stop.
