Instead of keeping score on who hasn& #39;t checked up on us, what if we just removed our ego reached out to those we haven& #39;t heard from?

If you have a friend who never reaches out and it makes you feel slighted. You should tell them. If they& #39;re your friend, they will make an effort to correct it now that it& #39;s been expressed. Give them a chance to show up AFTER verbalizing your needs. Make a judgement call after.