Spent the last several months trying to figure out why "woman" makes me uncomfortable when "girl" doesn't even though others see it as infantalizing, and I think it's because "woman" feels more sexualised and makes me feel like I fit less in my skin than I already do.

Ah, the fun obstacle course of self-perception in a queer body.

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