The queer community *has* become deeply sexually conservative in a bid to become “normal.” The fact everyone loses it when a trans woman creates some noncon/dubcon porn is testament to that fact.

The porn I enjoy involves giants eating people and girls beating each other up. Different strokes for different folks, but S&M has only strengthened my values and made me more aware of boundaries.

Responsible kink requires lots of empathy and communication.

But honestly I shouldn’t have to explain why CNC porn and CNC sexual desire are fine. I deserve to have a sex life on my terms and no one can tell me otherwise. It’s my fantasies, not yours, focus on your own.