I just realized tht girls doesn't care abt boys personal space.

A thread..

First of all, to those tht is bout to b triggered from dis insignificant statement u better calm ur titties.

You are considered as the majority of girls im assuming to.

To those who accept and understand

Well u are one fine women n would probably b a good wife . You've been hurt before aite ? So dont take it to hard.

Well to start proving my statement its kinda hard. But all the things im about to say is based on MY and MY circles of past experiences.

One , do u believe in personal space and self isolation ?

Where someone yang rasa insecure , depressed or just feeling shitty they isolate themselves and prefer to be alone To calm their thoughts ? This individual probably have a lot of secrets.

Usually when men undergoes this type of behavior.

Well as i said they isolate themselves even with their partner or significant others.

The partner usually will not tolerate this kind of behavior. Why? Cus, as the feeling of a partner deteriorated she will feel as she's

Useless and starts to overthink.
They will start doubting ur love for her.

She might think you already have someone else besides her.

She compulsively will accuse u of cheating and not loving her anymore because of the sudden changes of behavior (its normal)

Its not wrong but it aint right either.

Imagine a guy who is experiencing these feelings but cant help himself from isolation cus thats just how they are individually. They feel the most safety and secure with themselves.

Obviously we cannot say things like

"I dont wanna talk"
" takde mood"
" I need my space"
" i want to b alone dont bother me"
And etc types of excuses cus

Bij we love you how could we say petty shit like this to you cus its definitely gonna destroy ur heart

Thats the last thing we want.. you being insecure and sad because of our weakness

believe it or not it hurts us even more knowing u are hurt because of us more than the current situation.

Because of that very reason we usually lie and say tht were busy

"In game in baby"
"Tengah tngok movie"
"sorry tengah lepak i cant talk now"

Padahal sebelum ni molek je ws time game lepak bagai

Tone of expression tu penting.

Its not necessarily a good thing either.

Actually its not, sbb bodoke mu tipu awek mu meme dia mecok ah bohh. Dokcare doh mu masaloh mende sbb mu nipu doh tu je point dia pah kesudoh. Silap berbulan dia guna point yang sama. Nok nipu pun bior bijok ah sekmu. Berpadalah lipak

To those yg bertahan dgn org perangai self isolation ni. Give some to yoself u earn it.

For those who dont,
Take time lah to understand ur partner tu. Jgn guna baran je
Mmg tak bertahan lah relationships korang.

Kalau takleh terima perangai sebegitu,

Ckp terus terang angkat kaki bla je its for the better. Find someone yg you CAN handle instead of controlling some you can't.

To end dis thread.

The statement at the start of the thread

the "girls" can be anyone regardless of gender.

I used that term as a gig to attract any triggered readers.

But the examples are from experiences

Ty for wasting your time and energy to read this thread

Sorry for the language flippin

Enjoy ur quarantine and isolation.