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I’ve been seeing a lot of posts about females feeling crazy for defending themselves after they feel some type of way about something their partner is doing that makes them feel like they’re being cheated on— so join me in this thread..
I am ready to begin this thread. LETS GET THIS BREAD.
1. I just wanna begin by saying that this is my opinion and mine only. If you agree, awesome. If you don’t, guess what? You’re entitled to your own opinion and that’s okay as well (:
2. Pals, it is okay to ask for clarification through these types of scenarios. Don’t accuse but ask questions to get the clarity you need.
3. “Well don’t you trust me?” This can be a serious question or it can also be manipulation so pay close attention to what has happened thus far. Although your current boo isn’t your ex, trust is still something that is earned and developed throughout a relationship!
4. DO NOT FEEL SORRY. Your feelings are VALID and we all process things differently. You are allowed to speak up and look out for yourself.
5. Don’t be accusatory and anticipate answers. Instead, come in with how you’re feeling and why you are feeling this way. Relationships come with growth— on both ends. Works through things together.
