Sometimes I feel like being social in this community, starts to make you feel like you’ve been thrown in a competition. Things get cliquey, and suddenly you start to worry “Am I skinny enough? Do enough people like me? Why doesn’t everyone like me?” and it becomes toxic... (1/3)

... I often find myself questioning my success based on superficial things, such as likes and follows from other popular gays, and I’m here to tell you, none of that matters. In a community like this, people are bound to be intrinsically insecure... (2/3)

... Personally I know I question my success all the time, and how to maintain it. I’ve had an eating disorder and depression as a result of my insecurities. But I want to be the proof for gays that you can live as authentically as you want and still be successful and happy! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💖" title="Sparkling heart" aria-label="Emoji: Sparkling heart">