This is my friend's story.
She was with this one hardcore femme that end up cheated on her with another butch. Later she had casual hang out with 'one straight with boyfriend plan to get married' girl.
So I would like to share these 2 types of femme. https://twitter.com/twtlesbian/status/1252817593926168576

My friend is a successful butch&excel in work.Bonus,she's loyal too.She dated this one girl,help and supporting her getting through breakup from 8 years broken relationship.KL-KK back and forth to see this girl&maldives trip too end up this girl cheated on her with another butch

she later hang out for coffee with one straight girl with boyfriend and future plan. and then on her birthday I surprise her to invite that girl that she later had a crush on. surprisingly that girl came, late after running all the errands (I invited her on short notice)

Two of them later having emotional connection despite this girl actually have a boyfriend, plan to quit job move back to KK in few months(we are bunch of KKcity people yes) and get married simply because it's a 'normal' thing to do'
my friend insisted to be with this girl knowing

she only have little time together and the connection have expiring date lol.
I was worried can she takes another broken heart but she said she has a good feeling and I tell you INSTINCT is what you have in your relationship that other people wouldn't understand.

She shower the girl with love because it is normal thing to do for us,she shows the girl that world has a lot more to offer,dont just do things because it is normal things to do.The most importantly to feel what makes you happy is important than to please other people perspective

and now they are in a happy move in together relationship. so if you can see many lesson in this thread, one of it is do not change yourself just because you'v been hurt, you keep do you and good thing will come to you.

The girl said she's glad to know there's so many good quality, kindness, love and responsibilities that this one butch has in her that other people fail to see just because she is a butch.
So my conclusion is straight girl or not, it depends on that person, not the label.

End.