In these peril times you may be wanting to hold on to a relationship/friendship for love, companionship, or just to forgo loneliness. Don’t! Couple things I’ve learned.
1. Believe people when they show who they are. So listen with your eyes.
2. Doesn’t matter how much you want
them to change, even if it’s in their best interest, they won’t until they’re ready. Everyone wakes up to their own alarm clock.
3. You trying to hold on to them could hurt you more than they could. Sometimes that clean cut off is the best.
4. Learn how to how to say NO without
explaining yourself.

Implementing these observations will be hard. And they’ll hurt. And they’ll be heartache but you have to allow people the ability to miss you as well as the opportunity to miss you. You’ll be better in the long run.

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