Is there anybody on the TL who’s been in a happy relationship for longer than 7 years that wouldn’t describe it as hard work? Idk how I feel about describing relationships like that, but that could also be my naïveté.

Hard work doesn’t necessarily mean it’s not enjoyable, but does it have to be hard? https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤔" title="Thinking face" aria-label="Emoji: Thinking face">