We all want to feel special. It feels lovely. It makes you feel warm inside. And we deserve to be loved by people who make us feel special. So if they're consistently treating you badly and acting you like you're just anyone? How special could you be to them? That's their "love"?

honestly, what kind of love is that? don't you want to feel lucky and happy and appreciated? not like your spirit is being killed? not like you questioning everything all the time and feeling constantly on edge?

stop accepting bullshit from people who do not value you

A healthy relationship means making eachother feel fucking special. "You are special to me. I will do what I can to show you that I care. I value you and your feelings because I want you in my life and I want you to be happy. You are important to me and here, I'll show you."

it's like we expect more from our FRIENDS than our partners...like ummm, your partner is also supposed to be your friend, your confidant, your side-kick, your partner in crime..someone you can trust and rely on

not someone who hurts you consistently and seems to not care about u