soulmates aren't always romantic tho, which yall fail to realize. you dont go looking for them, they come and find us, when there's lessons that we need to learn. they find us when it’s time for a change.

also a soulmate can hurt you because they are a reflection of yourself. theyre not always this knight in shining armor & this is not me advocating to be with people who are hurting you. but if there is a quality in someone you do not like, you most likely share it as well

in conclusion, you can have multiple soulmates. the relationship is not always going to be ease and grace. it's possible to end up marrying one, but that shouldn't always be the end goal. instead of trying to make this person your life partner, learn your lessons first.