I will never forget hearing about Meghan’s ex friend siding with the ex husband because she didn’t approve how things were done. She was never really a friend. My friend of 30+ years left her husband out of the blue. I was a little skeptical about hearing this as I didn’t know1/4

2/4 there were problems or issues. But I stood by her as a real friend of 30+ years would do, and offered support however she needed it. As she healed and got stronger her story emerged and it was horrific. Verbal abuse for years. She lost her confidence and hid her pain, and

3/4 stayed in her situation. One day she had enough and left everything behind. As her story came out in pieces, it reminded me to never judge anyone’s situation as I never have been in her shoes or dealt with her type of pain. I can honestly say, I don’t know if I would have

4/4 come out as strong as her. She thrived, married again with a beautiful family and life. We don’t know Harry or Meghan’s struggles or life, it is their story to tell if they ever do. But as supporters we need to just that, support. #notjustsurvivebutthrive #nojudging