Another thread ahead!

First of all I'd like to respectfully ask anyone who disagrees with this thread to simply unfollow/block me. Please do not try to engage me in conversation on this if you're going to be disrespectful or hateful, I am not going to react, but will block you

It has been bugging me for a while now, how some of you treat BL actors and how much you objectifiy both the actors and gay couples.
As a member of the LGBT+ community myself this is really disturbing for me, so let me break this down to you.

Gay couples are NOT for you to fetishize (M/M or F/F). Gay couples are not out there to please your fantasies. Gay couples are not out there for you to drool over them but the nex minute throw homophobic sh*t at them.

Gay couples are NOT your f*kin stereotypes (who is bottom, who is top etc). Educate yourself on how sexual things work between gay couples, cause I have to tell ya, your BL show only education is showing, and it's pretty limited and not even close to reality.

If you don't know, STFU. Don't talk about it. Don't joke about it.
Another thing: the actors who play gay couples are also NOT your playthings. RESPECT them. You all are so entitled, that you think you can decide based on looks and whatever, who has what place,

that you ACTUALLY say things like "XX knows his place". HOW DARE YOU? HOW DARE YOU tell real or shipped (like in case of actors) who's place is where and HOW DARE YOU ASSUME that place. HOW DARE YOU PUT THEM in "any place".

You say you support LGBT+. You say you love and support those actors, and you say you care about their characters development, not about the sex scenes or how steamy those are. Well, you are either lying or just really bad at supporting.

This is not SUPPORT.

SUPPORT is where you don't pry into their private lives. Support is where you follow, like and respectfully comment on their WORK and other public relations. Support is NOT where you over-analyze every lil gesture they make, and call them liars

by refusing to believe what they're saying.
WHO cares what you think about their relationship and how real it is? HOW DARE you assume you know better based on what they let you see on social media or events? They ARE ACTORS. It's their JOB.

Is it possible that some of these actors develop real bonds? Yes
Is it ANY of your business how deep this bond goes? HELL NO. If they TELL you the're not together, accept it.

Posting their declarations with comments: "yeah, boyfriends" when they just declined is again CALLING THEM LIARS.
And EVEN IF THEY LIE IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS IF THEY DON'T WANT YOUR PUBLIC ASSES TO KNOW ABOUT THE TRUE NATURE OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP.

This is NOT Support what you're doing. This is the opposite. This is toxic and destroying and no wonder many of these friendships or close relations between so many of them ends quickly.
Ya'll saying, that you're only joking.

Well guess what, your jokes are overstepping lines more often than not. Your disrespectful, entitled and gross behavior shows, that in fact you are not supporting anything or anyone, you are only here watching BL shows to satiate your desires by drooling over two Men

(or in cases two Women) being hot around each other.

So if you think what you're doing is SUPPORT but you think you know better than anyone, think again...

PS: if it ain't fit... this thread is a general one.