Twin Flame #101 Tip

Whew.... I love this job but it comes with a huge responsibility! I want to ensure that I am providing the most correct and empowering information possible with truth and free of ego. As I looked over the resources I posted early regarding enabling,

Of the spiritual connection and due to several lovelies reaching out in confusion, I decided to delete. As those teachings don’t align with the message and truth of the situation or connection. I would also like to elaborate. In past relationships we tend to enable people,

It keeps us in control and the other person needy. That behavior is not to be repeated in a Twin Flame connection. You are supposed to pour into self first. Be whole balanced and happy within self. This attracts your whole balanced and happy twin back to you.

There is a lot of gray area as to how and when this happens. You focus on self, you heal, your pour into self. You learn how to establish healthy boundaries. This means to take care of self, nurture self, love self. You are on a spiritual journey to ONENESS. This means you.

In order to bring Union, you must focus on self, you must nurture your spiritual path. You must put your health and happiness first. Your twin will reflect this to you. My main point is there is a balance in ALL things. Use your common sense. Apply the information that suits your

Situation and connection. Stop looking outside of self for the answers. Learn to trust your own intuition. Release fear that you’re doing something wrong. Literally all you have to do on this journey is invest in yourself, believe in yourself and become love.

Stop being preoccupied by the other person. Stop trying to heal them before you heal yourself. Stop putting off things that you need or want to do because you’re waiting for them to appear. Stop thinking of them when you should be using that mental energy to create change

Within self. Be open to love be unconditional and vulnerable however don’t be a door mat. Don’t let them enjoy your light but disappear when darkness or hard times arise. Don’t interfere in karmic connections allow them to play out and know they will be yours when it’s all said

Done. Don’t control, don’t manipulate, don’t force. Focus on your goals dreams and aspirations. Release fear and the past learn to live in the present moment. Detach from unhealthy behaviors if that includes them for the moment then release and trust it will come back together

When the timing is right. To be successful on this journey: focus on self, heal self, don’t be consumed with fear or the other person this creates codependency versus secure attachment. This is what was meant by the earlier posts but some tend to take it to extremes.

You know what to do by what feels right. Don’t confuse your fear/trauma for intuition. Always learn to go deeper than the surface. But don’t allow your inner knowingness and intuition to make the other party lazy. They need to learn their lessons as well on this journey.

That’s all I was trying to convey. There are going to up and down back and forth that’s why it’s called a journey. Like ive said before your choices decide this journey. Self, love, healing, spiritual path, spiritual mission. Hell half forget all about the spiritual mission

And the bigger picture because they’re so consumed with the other person. Reality check is needed.