Tbh, people should stop bringing up the past. It’s really, really ugly to guilt trip someone for their mistakes which they made so long ago. Some people might learn from their mistakes, others might not. But it’s none of your business anymore. Just move on.

Yes, you must’ve been hurt, but poisoning someone’s life, threatening and manipulating them is way worse. It doesn’t make you look like a big person, trust me. It brings you even lower. Every single human being makes mistakes every single day. Everyone. You’re not an exception.

But recalling all the bad shit someone did to you forever makes your life a living hell, in the first place. It’s all in your head. But please just distract yourself from bad memories, just move on. You can’t hate someone’s guts forever. It’s really unhealthy for YOU, not them.

There are so many beautiful and cheerful moments in life that you miss out while hating on someone and spreading negativity all over the place, tbh. Once you stop doing it, your life will change for the better, I promise. Get a life.

I’m not writing this because of any particular situation, no. I know a lot of people struggling with such stuff. And it’s wrong. You can’t bully someone for their mistakes for the rest of their lives.
I made mistakes, u made mistakes, they made mistakes, everyone made mistakes.

And all of us will keep making mistakes. And it’s okay. It’s life and we’re just human beings. It’s not a big deal.
I understand, people are different, too. Some can forgive quite easily, like me, but they would never forget what happened. And it’s okay.

There are also people who would never forgive sth to someone, but they would just cut them off and never talk to them again, that is also okay. But not forgiving someone’s mistakes and legit making their lives shitty is NOT okay. It will never be.

Let’s try to focus on ourselves, really. It’d make us all a little bit happier. Make time for yourself, do skin care, watch movies, tv shows, anything. Just do sth with your life instead of bullying people for something they did 79728 centuries ago, or even a few days ago.

Doesn’t matter. Put yourself first. Be the big person in the situation if someone did shit to you. Don’t make yourself look so low by telling everyone how bad this person is. They’re not. They might have been bad to you, not others. Don’t try to ruin their reputation.

And no, I ain’t saint and of course, I had problems with people and of course I did want people to see the real them. But I just understood that it doesn’t make me look any better. There’s no point. People will still have their opinions and you’ll be someone who always whines.

So, ya, lov u all <3
Be happy and healthy, and drink water, and stop being shitty.
your Melody.

TBH NO ONE WILL READ IT BC ITS SO LONG WHY DID I MAKE IT SO LONG