expressing gratitude for detachment because the other choice is being too attached to something and the minute that happens, your freedom is now limited in some capacity. and nah. that's not even how i get down.

connections > attachments

the more i understand my constitution as far as energetic influence from my natal chart and my numerology chart, the more i appreciate how air dominant i am ... and how i come to understand how little appreciation air signs get despite being crucial for everyone else.

there is no water without oxygen.
the earth's creatures depend on air to breathe.
a fire needs air to sustain itself.

this reality can't function without air. not even a little bit.

i really see with clarity how i really am an air sun and moon because my needs are completely dependent on me having space. i have no issues with relationships. i do take issue with most people's ideas of relationships where they now think they can take my space from me.

i create space if i want to give it. crowding my space and demanding it will actually push me away from you. i don't like anyone thinking being in a relationship with me now means they control how i move. you have me fucked up actually.

no one ever wants to communicate. they want to passively aggressively move with their energy and expect you to always read them without them actually doing the work of learning how to confidently express themselves. i don't have time for this. if you want to play games, GO.

i am very direct because i don't have time for misunderstandings and half of the time, people want to read directness as insensitivity because they're emotionally unstable AND emotionally manipulative. i don't care. i said what i said plain as day.

that's another reason i have a hard time. people are always assigning feelings to what i say when i'm actually so detached because i'm not interested in having an emotional exchange with you. i'm talking about what's actually happening, not what i feel. so listen.

people move from the seat of their emotions while simultaneously having no understanding of their emotions. then get at mad air signs and call us emotionless when really we're so emotionally intelligent that we don't waste our emotional power on fruitless endeavors and exchanges.

why do you need so much of my emotional energy if you weren't trying to use it for yourself? i see people's shit immediately. i don't have to be emotional with you to understand you. what don't you understand?

all of the air signs represent relationships yet people think it's us ... yeah okay.

i can spot an emotional manipulator the second i see how they respond to me not wanting to give them an emotional reaction to something they've said. always fishing for something emotional like sympathy, praise, etc. instead of letting me give it organically. girl move.

air signs understand how important emotions are and how powerful they are ... why else would people have such strong reactions to be denied of emotional vulnerability just because they demand it ... people are emotional leeches and we don't have time for that. stay mad.

air signs feel so deeply that it overwhelms us. there is a reason air is associated with dissociation and even energetically leaving the body. air moons especially. all of those stereotypes about air being emotionless were written by someone who is controlled by theirs.

if air signs are so called emotionless then how are air signs some of the best and most imaginative creators when the same source of creative power is the source of your emotions (the sacral)?

let those lies go beloved.