Bro, thhe harsh reality is, women love men CONDITIONALLY. It's called HYPERGAMY. Marriage for a woman is simply her seeking out someone to PROVIDE, PROTECT & occasionally PENETRATE her under a law abiding CONTRACT (marriage certificate)....

The reason why men get hurt is because they don't understand this concept. They expect a woman to love them with the same unconditional love that their own mothers gave them (hopefully). Women always say this isn't true but it is true:

You can be with a woman for yrs, if you are out of work for just a few months & she comes across a financially stable guy she won't stay out of loyalty no matter what you did for her in her past. If a better opportunity comes she will leave. They are biologically wired to do so!!