If you act like wife material to every man...

You’re devoted to the desire to marry, not the man himself.

Internalize your values & get grounded to prepare for the life you seek.

But don’t just give your all to any man, select the one you give all-of-you to

Some men will choose a woman devoted to the idea of marriage because they’re afraid

They worry if she chooses him in the beginning, perhaps he can fail to meet her expectations along the way & lose her

This shouldn’t be the case. But all healthy relationships must have a risk

Don’t select a man who would “milk you dry” without wanting to marry you.

Don’t hold your love hostage until you get what you want either.

You vet for your future husband & give him your all genuinely.

This will organically progress with time & in tandem