I once had a Twitter feed filled with arguments, unfortunately highlighted by many prominent Christian voices. I made a new rule: I only follow Christians who I either personally know or consistently exhibit the Fruit of the Spirit. I read the voices of those I want to emulate.

This means that there are many who are "famous" in Christian circles I stopped following. Most of them are pastors; a few of them are culture warriors. When I saw the way they behaved, I realized I didn't want to be like them, so I wouldn't allow them to virtually disciple me.

I have zero regrets. Occasionally I am unaware of the latest kerfuffle, yet blissfully so. I have decided that I will not give those who are intentionally divisive and argumentative the one thing they need from me: my attention. And it has made my life immeasurably better.

Instead, I follow those who show me what it means to lean into the Way of Jesus, employing grace in thought and speech. There are far too many to name, but here are a few I recommend: @lorewilbert @sethhaines @R_Denhollander @racheljwelcher @EvanWelcher @BethMooreLPM

There are innumerable voices vying for space in my heart and mind. I must faithfully keep the gate. I decide who gets to come in. This is the only way forward for spiritual formation in a digital age.

I wrote a little about it here, if you're interested: https://www.stevebezner.com/writings/voices-in-my-head

Grace and peace, Tweeps.