One man in 2018 taught me never to allow a man to tell me he don’t want me twice. Never to allow a man to give me scraps and work with that. Never to allow how much I like a man to get in the way of how much I love myself. Never to forget that my needs matter.

Shit is always “that serious.” I ain’t settle even a BIT since. Last fucking time. Like completely.

Many times a woman talk all that fly shit about not settling at all meanwhile they only not settling 76%, 54%, 98.6% of the time making you feel bad like they fully live the shit. I went from being serious about it to DEAD THE FUCK SERIOUS and I ain’t look back since baby

I wasn’t worn dry or mistreated, I just liked a nigga too much. I cared too much. I was too much of myself in a situation that I shouldn’t have been in. Gave a damn. Wanted my time and wasted it. Couldn’t No ma’am. No ma’am. No love lost tho he REMINDED me of a valuable lesson.

I hope y’all not thinking he sat me down and taught me this shit. Nigga ain’t do enough. I cared too much. The end. Lmao