RasulAllah ﷺ said: “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.” (Ibn Majah)
Feeding each other:
RasulAllah ﷺ “You will be rewarded for whatever you spend for Allah’s sake even if it were a morsel which you put in your wife’s mouth.”(Al Bukhari)
RasulAllah ﷺ “You will be rewarded for whatever you spend for Allah’s sake even if it were a morsel which you put in your wife’s mouth.”(Al Bukhari)
Spending time doing fun things with each other:
‘Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:
“The Prophet raced with me and I beat him.” (Ibn Majah)
‘Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:
“The Prophet raced with me and I beat him.” (Ibn Majah)
Laying in each other’s lap:
The Prophet (ﷺ) would recline in the lap of our beloved mother, A’isha, even in the state when she would be menstruating.
The Prophet (ﷺ) would recite the Qur῾ān whilst reclining in his wifes lap.
Al-Bukhari
The Prophet (ﷺ) would recline in the lap of our beloved mother, A’isha, even in the state when she would be menstruating.
The Prophet (ﷺ) would recite the Qur῾ān whilst reclining in his wifes lap.
Al-Bukhari
Combing the spouses hair:
Aisha (RA) would comb the hair of the Prophet (ﷺ) and wash his hair.
Bukhrai, Tirmidhi
Aisha (RA) would comb the hair of the Prophet (ﷺ) and wash his hair.
Bukhrai, Tirmidhi
Calling them sweet names:
The Prophet ﷺ would call his wife Humairā out of love. It means little reddish one, it refers to someone who is so fair that due to the sun they get a reddish tan
(Bukhari)
The Prophet ﷺ would call his wife Humairā out of love. It means little reddish one, it refers to someone who is so fair that due to the sun they get a reddish tan
(Bukhari)
Respect and love her, and her loved ones:
One day, the Prophet’s companion, Amr ibn Al-As, said: “I came to the Prophet and said
Which people do you love most?”
He replied, “Aisha.”
I said: “From amongst the men?”
He replied, “Her father, (Abu Bakr).”
(Bukhari)
One day, the Prophet’s companion, Amr ibn Al-As, said: “I came to the Prophet and said
Which people do you love most?”
He replied, “Aisha.”
I said: “From amongst the men?”
He replied, “Her father, (Abu Bakr).”
(Bukhari)
Eating from the same spot:
Narration by Aisha “RasulAllah ﷺ used to put his mouth on the place where I had drunk from, & he would drink from what was leftover by me, even if I was menstruating.”
He,ﷺ would also eat after her, & from the same place she had eaten from
Albani
Narration by Aisha “RasulAllah ﷺ used to put his mouth on the place where I had drunk from, & he would drink from what was leftover by me, even if I was menstruating.”
He,ﷺ would also eat after her, & from the same place she had eaten from
Albani
Spending time with another:
Aisha narrated, “I remember RasulAllah ﷺ standing at the door of my room, screening me with his cloak, so that I could see the sport of the Abyssinians on Eid, as they played with their spears in the masjid.”
Bukhari
Aisha narrated, “I remember RasulAllah ﷺ standing at the door of my room, screening me with his cloak, so that I could see the sport of the Abyssinians on Eid, as they played with their spears in the masjid.”
Bukhari
Talking with each other:
Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) and the Prophet ﷺ would often spend time entertaining themselves by sharing tales.
Recorded in Bukhari
Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) and the Prophet ﷺ would often spend time entertaining themselves by sharing tales.
Recorded in Bukhari
Ibn Abbās: “As my wife adorns herself for me, I adorn myself for her. I dont want to take all my rights from her so she will not take all of her rights from me, because Allah, stated the following:
“And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them.” Quran2:228
“And women shall have rights similar to the rights against them.” Quran2:228
The Prophet stated ﷺ “Allah is pleased when a husband plays with his wife, due to this he fixes thawaab (good reward) for them or he establishes halal rizq (lawful sustenance) for them.”
(Al-Ifsah Ibn Hajr Haithami)
(Al-Ifsah Ibn Hajr Haithami)
It’s sunnah to kiss your wife before going to the masjid:
It was narrated that ‘A’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said that the Prophet ﷺ always kissed one of his wives then went out to pray,”
Abu Dawood
It was narrated that ‘A’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said that the Prophet ﷺ always kissed one of his wives then went out to pray,”
Abu Dawood
A’isha (Allah be pleased with her) narrates that RasulAllah ﷺ would kiss one of his wives and then leave for prayer.
Urwa says that I asked A’isha: “It must have been you?” Upon hearing this, A’isha smiled.”(Sunan al-Tirmidhi,
Urwa says that I asked A’isha: “It must have been you?” Upon hearing this, A’isha smiled.”(Sunan al-Tirmidhi,
The above 2 narrations indicate the recommendation of kissing one’s spouse.
They show the importance of greeting the wife when entering the house with a kiss and departing with a kiss.
This was the Sunnah of the beloved of Allah ﷺ
They show the importance of greeting the wife when entering the house with a kiss and departing with a kiss.
This was the Sunnah of the beloved of Allah ﷺ
there are so many more hadiths about the sunnah of loving your spouse, however i would need more time to gather them all, inshaAllah one day i will make another thread seeing as how much you all seemed to enjoy it

Insha’Allah Allah blesses us all with the best righteous spouses that fill our hearts with love and happiness in both worlds, you all are in my duas 

