I never knew why people CLOWN individuals that went back to their ex that had cheated on them. Sometimes, we truly accept the love we think we deserve. You do anything in your ability to make things better, try to change yourself to meet their needs that they demand, etc. Yes,

you shouldn’t go back to a cheating partner. However, when someone does why do people bring them down and bash them? Why not encourage them to understand their self worth and that they shouldn’t accept such a thing? Some individuals invest so much of themselves into their partne

-rs that when they cheat they immediately feel like they lost themself. I agree that if someone doesn’t learn the lesson of not leaving after multiple times options to help them can be limited. However, nobodies first reaction should be bashing them and ONLY saying “Leave them.”

If you’ve ever been cheated on, your feelings and reaction can differ from someone else who also has been cheated on and that’s okay. One thing for sure is that you do ask yourself why your “partner” did such a thing and start questioning where you went wrong.

The main point of this thread was try to encourage and help who go through something like this. NOBODY deserves to be cheated on or treated as they don’t have feelings other. Be the bigger person even if it wasn’t you to assure that person that it has nothing to do with them

and that they in no way need to change themselves for a cheating partner to “win” them back or anything. If you’ve ever been cheated on or in a situation similar to it, I’m sorry and you are way more worthy than that and I understand your feelings. Sometimes, it’s truly fuck love