1.I feel like most women don& #39;t mind compliments from random men so long as they& #39;re respectful & mature about it. I don& #39;t even mind if a guy tells me I look sexy while I& #39;m walking down the street as long as I can say thanks & move on w my day, and/or they take no for an answer...
2.Most people experience sexual attraction, that& #39;s normal & not inherently bad. It& #39;s just that men have been conditioned for so long to think they& #39;re entitled to us & that we exist solely for their pleasure that many of them don& #39;t know how to pay a compliment without being
3. gross or inappropriate.
Sure, some women don& #39;t know how to take a compliment or don& #39;t want to.
But guess what? They aren& #39;t obligated to. No one owes you anything for being nice. And if you compliment a woman & you interpret her response as rude, just stop talking & keep
Sure, some women don& #39;t know how to take a compliment or don& #39;t want to.
But guess what? They aren& #39;t obligated to. No one owes you anything for being nice. And if you compliment a woman & you interpret her response as rude, just stop talking & keep
4. moving. She doesn& #39;t owe you niceness or politeness even if you were kind.
I personally like to say thank you & I will be nice unless my boundaries are crossed or someone is disrespectful. Even then I try to deescalate & leave.
But not everyone is like me & THAT& #39;S OKAY TOO.
I personally like to say thank you & I will be nice unless my boundaries are crossed or someone is disrespectful. Even then I try to deescalate & leave.
But not everyone is like me & THAT& #39;S OKAY TOO.
5. People in general are pretty garbage at being considerate of each other& #39;s feelings, & men who catcall women tend to not be considerate of how being unexpectedly singled out by a strange man can make us feel, even if it& #39;s meant to be a positive interaction.
6. Many men don& #39;t realize the difference between objectification & a genuine compliment. Like I said, I personally don& #39;t mind being called sexy & appreciate the compliment so long as you respect me & let me keep walking. But don& #39;t talk about my tits or ass. Don& #39;t immediately
7. Start talking about what you want to do with me. That& #39;s not only incredibly rude but it& #39;s disgusting. Once, a man didn& #39;t even say hello, but cornered me & immediately told me where he wanted to put his fingers & what he expected the outcome to be. Thankfully he fucked off
8. Before anything else happened but for the 10 seconds he had me there I was absolutely terrified, followed by shame & rage that has never really left me. That SOB thought it was funny to objectify & scare me in public in broad daylight. His behavior said that I& #39;m a mere
9. Object. Even benign but superficial comments on our looks & bodies, whether positive or negative reduce us to objects. And that does NOT feel good.
We are people.
If you& #39;re going to compliment a woman, do it respectfully without expecting anything in return.
We are people.
If you& #39;re going to compliment a woman, do it respectfully without expecting anything in return.