Why Dating As A Millennial Is So Screwed Up!

(THREAD)

1. We Ghost As A Way To End Things

If we’re no longer interested in someone, we don’t need to tell them — we simply stop responding. If someone did this to us in real life, it would be completely psychotic, but because it’s over text or an instant message, we think it’s ok.

2. We’re Hyper Focused On Sex

Sex is scarily available — we can have it simply with the swipe of a finger. There’s zero effort made into getting to know someone for who they truly are unless we’re willing to undress and show the most sacred parts of ourselves first.

3. We’re In A Competition Of Who Can Care The Least

Showing actual emotions is heavily frowned upon. If we show our cards and act like we’re interested, it leaves the person we’re affectionate about turned off and running in the opposite direction instead of being appreciative.

4. We’re Too Strategic About Our Responses

Responding right away comes across as desperate and too available. It’s amazing to see that Instant messaging is just that, it’s instant, but we still withhold our response times to show just how busy, important, and unattached we are.

5. We Expect Perfection That Doesn’t Exist

Social media and thousands of dating profiles shoved in our faces leads us to believe we’re entitled a fairy tale life that doesn’t truly exist. We fail to realize that relationships are a balanced bond and that comes with imperfections

6. We’re Overloaded With Options

We move from person to person and even if we land on someone that makes us feel great and we could totally devote ourselves to in a relationship, we’re never quite willing to give up the search. It’s pretty much a never ending tiring journey

7. We’re Always Stuck In A Grey Area

Almost relationships and no strings attached sex are the millennial versions of commitment. We’re left constantly wondering where relationships are headed, if anywhere, and stick ourselves with wondering if we’re wasting our time. No one....

[CONT]..is clear about their intentions, some lie about their intentions entirely just to have their ego’s stroked for a while, and basically no one has any clue on what is going on.

8. We Don’t Feel Responsible For The Pain We Inflict On Others

When we’ve hurt someone’s feelings, we don’t feel even the slightest bit inclined to apologize or to make good on our wrongs. It’s not our problem, it’s theirs. A person’s emotions, even if caused by ourselves, etc.

This is the end of the thread but I’m going to go ahead and throw a disclaimer in here, even though this price of information is felt HOME, I got it from a blog so down below is the link.

https://www.bolde.com/dating-millennial-screwed/

Just thought I’ll share to those who are here interested.