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Why Dating As A Millennial Is So Screwed Up!
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1. We Ghost As A Way To End Things
If weāre no longer interested in someone, we donāt need to tell them ā we simply stop responding. If someone did this to us in real life, it would be completely psychotic, but because itās over text or an instant message, we think itās ok.
If weāre no longer interested in someone, we donāt need to tell them ā we simply stop responding. If someone did this to us in real life, it would be completely psychotic, but because itās over text or an instant message, we think itās ok.
2. Weāre Hyper Focused On Sex
Sex is scarily available ā we can have it simply with the swipe of a finger. Thereās zero effort made into getting to know someone for who they truly are unless weāre willing to undress and show the most sacred parts of ourselves first.
Sex is scarily available ā we can have it simply with the swipe of a finger. Thereās zero effort made into getting to know someone for who they truly are unless weāre willing to undress and show the most sacred parts of ourselves first.
3. Weāre In A Competition Of Who Can Care The Least
Showing actual emotions is heavily frowned upon. If we show our cards and act like weāre interested, it leaves the person weāre affectionate about turned off and running in the opposite direction instead of being appreciative.
Showing actual emotions is heavily frowned upon. If we show our cards and act like weāre interested, it leaves the person weāre affectionate about turned off and running in the opposite direction instead of being appreciative.
4. Weāre Too Strategic About Our Responses
Responding right away comes across as desperate and too available. Itās amazing to see that Instant messaging is just that, itās instant, but we still withhold our response times to show just how busy, important, and unattached we are.
Responding right away comes across as desperate and too available. Itās amazing to see that Instant messaging is just that, itās instant, but we still withhold our response times to show just how busy, important, and unattached we are.
5. We Expect Perfection That Doesnāt Exist
Social media and thousands of dating profiles shoved in our faces leads us to believe weāre entitled a fairy tale life that doesnāt truly exist. We fail to realize that relationships are a balanced bond and that comes with imperfections
Social media and thousands of dating profiles shoved in our faces leads us to believe weāre entitled a fairy tale life that doesnāt truly exist. We fail to realize that relationships are a balanced bond and that comes with imperfections
6. Weāre Overloaded With Options
We move from person to person and even if we land on someone that makes us feel great and we could totally devote ourselves to in a relationship, weāre never quite willing to give up the search. Itās pretty much a never ending tiring journey
We move from person to person and even if we land on someone that makes us feel great and we could totally devote ourselves to in a relationship, weāre never quite willing to give up the search. Itās pretty much a never ending tiring journey
7. Weāre Always Stuck In A Grey Area
Almost relationships and no strings attached sex are the millennial versions of commitment. Weāre left constantly wondering where relationships are headed, if anywhere, and stick ourselves with wondering if weāre wasting our time. No one....
Almost relationships and no strings attached sex are the millennial versions of commitment. Weāre left constantly wondering where relationships are headed, if anywhere, and stick ourselves with wondering if weāre wasting our time. No one....
[CONT]..is clear about their intentions, some lie about their intentions entirely just to have their egoās stroked for a while, and basically no one has any clue on what is going on.
8. We Donāt Feel Responsible For The Pain We Inflict On Others
When weāve hurt someoneās feelings, we donāt feel even the slightest bit inclined to apologize or to make good on our wrongs. Itās not our problem, itās theirs. A personās emotions, even if caused by ourselves, etc.
When weāve hurt someoneās feelings, we donāt feel even the slightest bit inclined to apologize or to make good on our wrongs. Itās not our problem, itās theirs. A personās emotions, even if caused by ourselves, etc.
This is the end of the thread but Iām going to go ahead and throw a disclaimer in here, even though this price of information is felt HOME, I got it from a blog so down below is the link.
https://www.bolde.com/dating-millennial-screwed/
Just thought Iāll share to those who are here interested.
https://www.bolde.com/dating-millennial-screwed/
Just thought Iāll share to those who are here interested.
