Hey guys. So over the past couple of days I’ve been cryptic abt some stuff going on but w the help of my friends I’ve realized that I should speak about it. This is about an older man who sent me, a 16 yo, inappropriate messages. I’ve decided to speak up about it in case I can-
Help anyone else who’s been through something like this or if this man has done anything to any of you as I know he’s in a bunch of gcs and that’s how he found me. Since this whole thing has come to light he’s been kicked out of gcs and has apologized to me and Fran who-
Ran the some. He told both of us that he was going to better himself and he has deactivated his acc. I felt that I shouldn’t post this thread because 1) he apologized and is taking time to learn from his mistakes and 2) I still feel very uncomfortable and embarrassed about this-
Situation but I want to post about it to help others who might be in this situation. If this man comes back to Twitter I kindly ask no hate to be thrown his way on my behalf, this would make me feel even more uncomfortable, but if it comes out that he’s done this to anyone else-
Do as you wish. I would like to make it clear that he is 20 and I am 16. I didn’t expect for our conversation to turn into what it did since I’ve had conversations with people around that age and have never had problems before. I met @/knightofspidey from a Twitter gc abt-
Being bored in quarantine. Everyone was talking abt films and then he messaged me separately. At first we talked about films and movies and video games but then he asked to play truth or dare, which at first was very innocent but his questions turned a bit inappropriate for -
Someone that is overage and that I don’t know personally to be asking me. Now before I post the screenshots with descriptions, this is a trigger warning just in case anyone might feel uncomfortable with sexual conversations or anything pertaining along the lines of an older man -
Asking a younger girl inappropriate questions. I will put a description of the text and the context around it. Most of these are out of order as well, the more sexual questions were later in the convo. I didn’t know how to react to these, I’ve never been in this situation before
This first screenshot is us telling each other our ages. I’ve talked to people even over the age of 20 before so I didn’t think it was a big deal especially since before he was acting normal and in the gcs
This is him starting to make weird comments that I brushed off because I have friends my age that act like this. (I was making too much noise because I was fighting over candy) he also asked if I was single
When I would continuously pick truth he would say “deep truth” which I later learned meant something sexual or personal. I tried skimming the water by asking questions he wanted to hear but that were not too deep. I was regularly asking questions like travel questions or movies.
This is me telling him multiple times that I have no experience with the questions he was starting to lean toward and ask. I didn’t want to tell a stranger about my personal life.
These are in my opinion the most uncomfortable questions he asked the body question was earlier in the convo and the others came later. After this I tried really hard to leave the convo without seeming to be rude. This is after I told him I had no experience
After fran @reylopilots talked to him he apologized to me these are some of the apologies and will he continued in the next-
I haven’t talked to him since and he gave Fran an apology if he made anyone uncomfortable in any of the group chats. I’m not justifying his actions but I am saying that he told me and fran he realized his mistakes. He also told Fran he is deactivating to better himself.
That’s the end of this thread for me. I didn’t want to post this but I feel that if this helps anyone than it was worth it. I don’t hold any grudges again the man who messaged me these things and I hope he learns from his mistakes. If anyone has gone through a situation with him-
Feel free to dm me or fran @reylopilots at first I didn’t want to tell anyone but I had to because I felt so disgusted with the whole situation. There was more to the conversation that I didn’t take screenshots of as well some good some bad but this was what I needed to show-
And to anyone who has gone through or is going through something like this, you can speak up and reach out, you don’t need to keep it to yourself. I know worst things happen to people and this is minor but if this thread could help anyone then that would be worth it-
Thank you all for taking the time out of your day to read my thread. I love you all and please stay safe💗 (ps ignore any spelling errors pls :))
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