A lot of people seem to be confused about the difference between fetishists and submissives, so let’s talk.
Many Dommes make fetish content which attracts a variety of people BUT just because you’re drawn to a Domme that doesn’t mean you’re submissive. (1/3)

Submission requires selflessness. It is not self-seeking and it is not based on what a Domme can do for you. It’s about how you can serve, entertain and please Them.
Fetishists are more interested in viewing content or performing tasks to satisfy themselves. (2/3)

I don’t have anything against fetishists. However, it takes them being honest and not setting the expectations of a D/s dynamic because ultimately both parties end up unsatisfied.
And at the end of the day, you need to pay SW’s for their time and their content regardless. (3/3)