saying “i’m harsh on you because i love you” and “if i dont tell you who will” is not okay. it is not right. it’s manipulative. it’s crossing boundaries. it’s not true. it’s not okay.

people say that to dismiss all of the rude and hurtful things or the boundaries they crossed because they know it’s wrong. trust me, there are ways to love someone and help someone without being harsh or critical.

this isn’t up for debate and i don’t get notifications as is, everything is muted so argue with yourself :)