i am mentally challenched

bro every time i see an informative adhd post here, even when its worded unbiasedly, i cant shake the feeling that emotional disregulation makes you a bad person fr
like theres never a bright side to any of this theres no angle at which anyone who doesnt experience this the way you do to understand it in a positive light its always âcant work, cant have friendships, cant be engaged with others, wastes tons of timeâ like what is the point